I pernah jumpa org gini. Nak tahu tak how to fix orang macamni? Yg selalu tanya benda2 kecik. Senang je, u kena stop micromanage /complain/ pertikai apa dia buat.
Mungkin punca dia jadi macam ni sbb u pernah complain kat dia “kenapa ambik bawang besar?” “Kenapa ambik yg tak elok” “U ni tak pandai pilih bawang la, tak elok” etc.
So dia akan rasa apa yg dia buat semua salah dimata u, and in the future ended up jadi apa? Jadi mcm dlm gambar kat bawah ni la. Dia akan suruh you yg buat keputusan sebab nanti you confirm takkan complain dah.
Samala macam memasak, or tolong arrangekan perabot, or bila orang tolong belikan u makanan. Kalau u banyak complain itu ini salah, ended up orang tu akan tak berminat untuk tolong u dah. Kalau tolong pun, dia akan bagi u yg buat decision, sebab dia malas nk kena judge
Kalau org tu buat silap sikit, or benda yg dia buat tu tk kena tekak you. U tutup mata and redakan je. Just nasihat softly and move on. Tak perlu ungkit, tak perlu pertikai lebih2 or pergi malukan dia dekat socmed or kawan2.
Lama2 orang tu akan adjust and learn sendiri.
U nak dorang fikir sendiri, tapi bila dorang fikir sendiri, u tak suka. Nk ikut telunjuk u jugak, lepastu penat sebab asyik jadi “decision maker”. Faham tak maksud i😅
🚨 BREAKING:
Imam of the Kaaba made this dua for
marriage at the end of Tarawih prayer!
O Allah, do not leave any single person
without granting him/her a spouse.
Repost this and say AMEEEEEEEEEEEN.
BREAKING:
Newly Epstein files claim that pieces of the Kaaba's Kiswah (holy cloth) were shipped from Saudi Arabia to Jeffrey Epstein.
Aziza Al-Ahmadi, a UAE-based Saudi woman sent an email in 2017 explaining that the cloth had been touched by around 10 million Muslims during tawaf and carried their prayers, tears and hopes.
Kedah plans to file a legal claim over Penang and Seberang Perai by year-end, following a review of historical documents and legal considerations.
Menteri Besar Sanusi Nor said the state’s legal team is finalising the legal approach before submitting the case to court.
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My proposal:
You get to do your larangan homoseksual or whatever it is amongst yourselves.
In return, people get the option to leave islam.
I think it's fair.