If you are looking for activities to engage your kids with, help them learn CHESS.
You may think you are teaching them a game… but you are helping them understand life before life introduces itself to them fully.
1. Chess teaches a child that every move has a consequence.
You are free to make your move… but you are not free from what comes after it.
2. Chess teaches them to think before they act.
It helps them learn to analyse situations, think more deeply, and understand that the first move that comes to mind may not always be the best.
3. Chess teaches patience.
Sometimes the right move is to wait, strengthen your position, and allow the game to develop.
4. Chess teaches sacrifice.
It helps them understand that sometimes you have to give up something valuable today because you understand what it can create for you tomorrow.
5. Chess teaches children how to lose without excuses or blaming anybody.
You made some wrong moves. Your opponent made better ones.
It helps them learn how to study patterns and come back stronger.
6. Chess helps them understand that being powerful is not enough, you must learn to choose your battles wisely.
The Queen is the most powerful piece on the board, yet she can still be trapped by pieces far weaker than her.
Chess is the game of life... almost everything on the board has a real-life equivalent:
•You have limited moves.
•Every decision has consequences.
•You cannot protect everything.
•Sometimes you sacrifice to advance.
•Power means little without positioning.
•Patience can defeat aggression.
•You have to anticipate other people’s moves.
•One careless decision can destroy years of good positioning.
•Losing does not really mean you are weak… sometimes you were simply outplayed.
•Just like life, Chess rewards the person who understands the board, not the person with the most power.
Chess is not just a game… It is one of the simplest ways to understand how life moves.
And almost all of the mistakes we make as adults can be interpreted with CHESS.
"Don't date under 23. They have not experienced life"
Time to demystify this nonsense. Ride with me.
Everyone becomes an adult at 18. Prior to that, you were the responsibility of your parents and under their guardian and tutelage. How do you leave your parents tutelage and immediately become a whore? It speaks to how you were raised and shames your parents. In the past, people bragged about how a child was raised and by 18 everyone knows without a shadow of doubt she would make a good wife because he values were right and her femininity was on point. Now by 18, we are expecting women to have sugar daddy and whore around till they are ready to settle down.
If your reason for not marrying young women was because you wanted them to get a degree, work experience and get some financial independence, that makes a lot of sense to me. But all the reasons I have seen on this app has been about whoredom. Talmbout, they have not experienced their hoe phase. Why are you waiting for a whore to retire before you marry? Who cursed you?
The talk of "they have not experienced life" is bullshit. Everybody experiences life. Whoredom is not life experience. A woman becomes fit for marriage at 18. You as a man can then mould her into the man you want in the best interest of your home while you lead her, provide for her and protect her with your life and resources. The more men she sleeps with, she loses a part of her femininity and carries a part of them because men shape women.
She has not experienced "hoe phase."
There is no such thing as hoe phase. She is either a hoe or not. How do you trust someone who has whored for 10 years above someone who just entered adulthood from her parents' guardian and is undefiled? Claiming she would become a whore and she should let that phase pass, is you impugning the character of a woman who just came into adulthood while pushing her into whoredom and it shows the society we live in.
I dated my first babe when she was 19 and I was 21. Her values were right, principles were tight, behaviour was excellent. I met my next babe when she was 21, had a long talking stage, became friends and dated. She crossed from that passed 25 without being a whore. Values are tight. Behaviour on point. Femininity over the roof.
You were raised. So how do you leave home to become a whore immediately? That should be the real question here. That is the question I need you men to be asking instead of expecting every woman to be a whore. It is even an insult to women who have conducted themselves appropriately through their teen and 20s to be grouped together with whores. Someone who has whored from 19 to 30 is not retired. A whore will always be a whore. The past doesn't stay in the past. If you have financial issues, what do you think would cross her mind? If she has issues with you, what do you think she would do? The infidelity series I do annually, are you not seeing the number of whoring babes and wives in their 30s? Where do you see whores retire in real life? Leave theory and focus on life. Now let me ask you, are you not seeing 30+ flauting breasts and ass on Twitter, IG and Snapchat? Are you not bedding whoring 30+ women?
Where is the retirement?
Relationship can end for many reasons - genotype incompatibility, parents refusal to consent, distance, wanting different things from life, career and family, among others. People who had sex with their partners during the existence of their relationship are not whores. It is a relationship, sex is expected. You can differentiate them from people sleeping with all and sundry for money. You know 30+ dating or married women you can call and they will come rushing to suck.
"They have life experience" is not a flex. What experience did they have exactly and what did they learn from the experience? It is not by clocking 30. Fools clock 30 too, so do whores. Clocking 30 will not whitewash the whoredom nor does it make you wise.
"They are mature." Whoredom does not make you mature. You're just a whore. There are responsible 30+ women. If you must date a 30+, why not go for the responsible ones who have a history of carrying herself properly instead of dating a career whore? Some women have dedicated their 20s to education and career while having one or two failed relationships, why not go for those instead of the "mature women" who have more international caps than Ramos.
Lastly, saying "you can't control or lead an under 23" is actually something you should be ashamed to say. Are you not a man? Is it the experienced 30+ you call retired whore you want to control and lead? LOL
Date people with values. You can have values at 21 and you should. Age is irrelevant. Women with values at under 23 are in abundance. You are the one looking for whores. If you like, continue wifing whores in the name of maturity. Anyway, men like you are important for society. Somebody has to marry the whores. So here is me saying congratulations and thank you for your service 🤝🏾
Monaco F1 isn't really about the race.
If you want to make monaco -level money,
Start asking:
"What can I build, own, or invest in?"
Billionaires get rich from owning assets and companies.
The real game is ownership,
Investment and building long-term business that prints 🤑.
Things to teach your kids;
- Chess
- First aid
- Resilience
- Astronomy
- Persuasion
- Adaptability
- Self-respect
- Self-defence
- Cooking skills
- Assertiveness
- Managing time
- A good attitude
- Public speaking
- Problem solving
- Self-awareness
- Gardening skills
- How to volunteer
- How to negotiate
- Living off the land
- Basic home repair
- Starting a business
- Money management
- Good communication
- Don’t watch the news
- Emotional intelligence
- How to manage stress
- Basic car maintenance
- How to make a decision
- How to influence people
- How to be a great mother
- It’s okay to feel your emotions
- Mental frameworks for thinking
- Understanding healthy relationships
- Building others up, not tearing them down
- Problem-solving over memorization
- Exploration over conformity
- Creativity over rote learning
- The value of hard work.
- How to be kind to everyone.
- Why failure is the path to success.
- How to think, not what to think.
- How to adapt, not conform.
- How to lead, not follow.
- How to create, not consume.
- Taking care of animals.
- Good use of language.
- Opposite sex relationships.
- Healhy food choices.
- Music, listening and performing.
- General culture.
- Foreign languages.
- Leadership.
- Stoicism.
- Fasting.
- Sports.
- Video games.
- Spirituality.
- Travelling.
- Copywriting.
- Drawing.
- Self love.
What would you add?
As a private citizen, here are 13 things you should never post (or post with extreme caution):
1.Your exact home address or location.
2.Your phone number or personal email.
3. Your bank details or financial information.
4. Your travel plans in real time.
5. Private family problems.
6. Sensitive work information.
7. Your children’s personal details.
8. Your children’s pictures and school pictures with school uniforms.
9. Legal documents or IDs.
10. Your daily routine and habits.
11. Streaming live videos from your private location.
12. Your vehicle plate number.
13. Your car.
Privacy is strength🪶