I grew up resenting my aunt for being well-off but not helping us financially.
When I started working, I promised myself I’d be a better version of her. I helped siblings, nieces, nephews, family — whoever needed it.
Then Black Tax had me in a chokehold, and eventually debt started catching up with me.
That’s when I learned to set boundaries.
I finally understood that I don’t owe anyone financial support simply because we’re family. And, most importantly, I stopped feeling guilty about it.
Funny how adulthood teaches you to understand the people you once judged.
@TDeisine Lack of education and systematic oppression on black people. People just need exposure to different environments then they can realize what’s right and wrong
Just because I’m posting about God doesn’t mean I’m healed or better than you. I’m still a sinner. I still struggle. But everyday His grace picks me back up!
Single sex schools give many girls something surprisingly rare: the experience of seeing women occupy every level of authority without explanation or exception. Entire institutions run by women. So no one will ever convince me that women are incompetent.
Married women are the worst PR for marriage I’ll be like “I’m going to see a movie with my friends” and they’ll say “go enjoy your life while you still can” oh? What’s gonna happen to my life?
Married women are the worst PR for marriage I’ll be like “I’m going to see a movie with my friends” and they’ll say “go enjoy your life while you still can” oh? What’s gonna happen to my life?