Omar Suleiman in one of his Ramadan series episode said;
If Allah can be patient, waiting for you to return to Him and doesn’t punish you immediately after you commit a sin, why can’t you be patient with His plans and trust Him over your own desires?
Heal me on the Day of Arafah, Ya Allah. Heal me so deeply that even my memories stop hurting. Replace the tears in my eyes with light in my heart. Make me forget the words that wounded me and remember only that You are enough for me.
please marry a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you gifts, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can. You deserve all of that.
Avoidant attachment explained in simple terms:
They want love, but intimacy triggers panic. So, they pull away, not because they don't care, but because closeness feels like a threat. They learned early that needing people leads to disappointment. Distance became safety.