i never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman, and if you can't find her, don't use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.
When a woman keeps solving everything alone while in a relationship, her brain stops seeing her partner as safe support and starts seeing him as dead weight once that switch flips, attraction quietly fades no matter how much history they share.
I always see story times tsa this Botswana baddie, all of them ke ka bashimane. And over 10 exes botlhe ba mo toula😭😭😭😭😭😭
And le lona bathong. Motho tlaa be a swela hela go isiwa ko The Blyde. Hela ha pitori ha.
Kante labe le tswa kae before le tla go trend mo GC?🤔😭
Cardi B went live revealing her and Quavo have seen each other over 16 times and she doesn't care how Offset feels because he didn't care how she felt whenever he was cheating on her 😳. "I'm only 33 I'm still getting my get back" "Me and Quavo might have a baby soon I love him"
As a woman you should only commit to what you can afford to sustain. If your Man keeps upgrading your lifestyle beyond your income, ask yourself if he disappears tomorrow, can you still hold it together?
If you ended a relationship and realized she didn’t go looking for another man or distractions, but instead chose growth, discipline, and solitude you should understand what that really means. She started running, training, taking care of herself, and distancing herself so she could rebuild from within, not escape. That kind of silence isn’t indifference it’s strength, and it only comes from something real. I’m sorry to tell you… she truly did love you.
She's going to find someone who makes her feel like she's not asking for too much. And the crazy part is she's not going to have to ask at all. He's just going to do it. And that's the moment she's going to realize it was never that she wanted too much. It was just that she was asking the wrong person.
Avoidants will drain you silently. No consistency, no clarity, just excuses. You keep showing up. They keep disappearing. Stop normalizing that. Your need for stability is valid. Drop anyone who makes you feel like a burden for simply wanting presence.
One day you're begging a man for the bare minimum, then suddenly you're being spoiled by another man who wants nothing more than to love you, care for you, respect you, adore your every breath, protect you, and make you feel safe, desired, and at peace.