Queen Nonso

Scientist/
Hepatitis advocate/
Loves Don Jazzy/
Davido Stan♥️/
Chelsea Fan
instagram: @nonso_cecil

email: [email protected]

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@Ugochukwu96_

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@DukeDarls @Wizarab10 What's disgusting there, the sex? Didn't the supposed groom have sex with other women? All of a sudden it's disgusting because it's a woman. Just STFU please

[Ugegbe ✨ @MarinatedTurks]

🤍🤍🤍

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@Munalozy Yam ambassador 😂😂😂

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@YulEdochie Admin

[Chicken Catcher🐔 @Only1Etubo]

I have tweeted this a few times, and I will tweet it again.

Firstly, we cannot say they didn’t build or buy a house for their fathers just because it wasn’t posted online. Secondly, if they didn’t, there must be a story behind it. Lastly, and most importantly, we men underestimate the importance of bonding, showing up, and emotionally supporting our kids. We act like these things aren’t as important as providing. Many men don’t even try at all. no bond, no emotional support, and just providing.

Do you know why many men are quick to disown their kids? It’s because there is no bond. We see it online all the time: a video of kids making mistakes, and men commenting, “If any of my kids try this, I will disown them.” That easy? The first thing that comes to your mind is to disown them? I changed so many diapers, soothed their sickness, and endured every tantrum, and you just want me to disown my kids? Many men see kids as people they only need to provide for.

If all you do is provide, while the mother does the showing up, emotional support, and bonding, then when the kids grow up and it’s time to give back, they will do the same. Not because they are bad kids, but because that’s what they learned. They will celebrate their mother more. They will talk to her more. Meanwhile, you as the father who only provided, will only receive financial gestures and gifts. You will be taken care of. They will like post their mom and rarely post you. Ask people who openly celebrate their dads if all he did was provide.

But if you never celebrated them when they were young, why should they celebrate you? You can’t expect them to miraculously create a bond you never built. If you’re lucky, your kids may unlearn that pattern and try to build a relationship with you, but it will be difficult, because they were raised with, “As a father, it’s my way or the highway.”

I work 12 to 16 hours sometimes, and my daughter has a game right after that. I get tired, really tired, but I still show up. And many times, when I get there, the smile that lights up her face when she spots me in the crowd is priceless. I love seeing that.

Do you think I always have the strength to go to parks, birthday parties, pools, and watch her play sports? Sometimes I want to rest, but I still try. And whenever I can’t make it, I communicate that with her. I don’t just fail to show up. I explain and give her reasons. So, my brothers, providing for your family and being emotionally present aren’t mutually exclusive. Try. Otherwise, when you are down, your kids won’t be beside you on your deathbed, but they will make sure you d*e comfortably.

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

Nigeria is battling corruption but south Africa is one country that lacks empathy and sympathy.
Oppressing others, the sky is too big but SA said otherwise.

[Lilyallly❤️🇬🇧 @lilyally98]

Things you will never hear me say:

1. How to keep a man
2. Feminine ways to.
3. Stop acting like a woman
4. women are emotional
5. Pregnancy is easy
6. I can take your man
8.Wash your p*ssy with apple juice so it smells like fruit
9. A woman’s role is cooking and cleaning

[Muna @Munalozy]

Some of you are genuinely good people and I hope the world shows you nothing but blessings. ❤

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@rukky_nate Fibroid/endometriosis

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Take off your shoes and look at your ankles - then look at your elbows. Ashhhhyyy.

Dear Nigerian men,

Using lotion doesn't make you gay.

Skincare doesn't make you gay.

Flossing doesn't make you gay.

Changing boxers doesn't make you gay.

You're just a nasty musty boy.

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@mustapha_toyib @UnkleAyo Read to comprehend sir or better still use your data well

[UNCLE @MrOlibaba]

I read that a man's age can contribute to the birth of a down syndrome child.

According to the research older fathers have a slightly higher chance of contributing to chromosomal abnormalities.

The report further states that
A man in his 40s or 50s may have a slightly increased risk compared to a younger man.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Dear Nigerian men,

All your lives, you've been lied to. Fertility issues aren't gender specific.

Men do have biological clocks.

The quality of your sperm peaks at 30, subtle decline in your 30s & significnt decline in your 40s.

Your sperm can cause pregnancy complications 🙏

[Muna @Munalozy]

This is poor advice. In real relationships, partners often connect each other to opportunities that open doors. And most women have been doing this.

So it’s surprising when a man is with someone he can’t open up to.

Your personal experience shouldn’t be imposed on others. Women consistently support their partners growth.

If your partner has the ability to help you when you’re struggling, why not speak up?

Isn’t it better to be open, knowing she can lift you to a higher level? Do you really think a woman who truly loves you, and is capable would watch you fall without helping?

Dear men, try to communicate and accept support from your partners, especially when they are in a position to help, connect or support you.

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@BlessingCh73232 She has an electric yam pounder which in the normal sense she herself doesn't pound yam manually, she intentionally wanted to suffer that girl to prove unnecessary points.
Thats what they will keep doing until he ends with ekwensu that will finish him off.

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@Sisi_Yemmie Okro

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@MarinatedTurks @victorosimhen9 Rooting for you queen 🎉

[Ugegbe ✨ @MarinatedTurks]

Hello @victorosimhen9 i would love to cook for you and your friends if possible when you are in Nigeria.

I own a small business that caters to taste buds and give grand satisfaction.

My kitchen is mostly known for traditional delicacies, i would appreciate your patronage🥹🙏.

[Queen Nonso @nonso_di]

@oku_yungx Is it gender specific?