Have you ever tried mirroring a narcissist’s behaviors back at them to try to show them how inappropriate their behavior is only for them to completely miss the point of self-reflection and accuse you of being abusive for doing the exact same thing they did to you first?
Hay personas que aún no entienden que el regalo más valioso que puedes darle a alguien es tu tiempo. El tiempo no vuelve, no se guarda y no se recupera. Por eso cuando alguien decide pasar un momento contigo en realidad te está entregando un pedacito de su vida que jamás volverá.
La mentalidad de un narcisista en pocas palabras: eso no sucedió, y si sucedió, no fue tan malo, y si sucedió, no es gran cosa, y si lo fue, no es mi culpa, y si lo fue, no quise hacerlo, y si lo hice, me obligaste a hacerlo.
SIGNS OF AN INNOCENT SOUL
1. You ask too many "why" questions.
2. You struggle to lie - even a little.
3. You laugh easily - even at silly things.
4. You're shaken by cruelty.
5. You're uncomfortable with conflict.
6. You can't fake who you are.
7. You cry for others' pain.
8. You apologize when you're not at fault.
9. Mind games confuse you.
10. Manipulators find you.
11. You trust too soon, love too deep.
12. You believe in promises too soon
13. You forgive faster than you should
14. You hide your pain to protect others.
15. You still see the good in people.
16. If you have a soul like this.. protect it.
The world needs you.
Adesso vorrei tanto una carezza per questi errori imperdonabili che hai commesso sul mio cuore. Il fatto che io sia ferma in questo lago di dolore e tu ci nuoti dentro. Hai visto come ti sei comportato? Sono ferita a morte perché non so come fai a esistere così
one of the hardest realisations is understanding that some people loved the comfort of being loved by you, but never had the emotional depth to love you in the way you deserved.
let your final act of love be the silence that they always wanted. no more begging for their time, replies or effort. step back and let them feel the space where your love used to be. and you, heal.
Silence is not always revenge. Sometimes, it is acceptance. You stop fighting for someone to choose you and start choosing yourself instead.
Let them have the space they asked for. And while they have it, use yours to rebuild the peace you lost trying to keep them. 🤍
It's heartbreaking how many women have to walk away from men they genuinely love because love alone can't make up for a lack of emotional maturity, accountability or healthy communication.
One thing I’ll always hate and love about myself is that, before I can truly move on from something, I have to let it completely break me first .It’s not because I don’t love myself. It’s because I have this stubborn faith that people, situations, and outcomes can change. I hold on until there’s nothing left to hold onto. Only then can I finally let go.
Cheating is painful. But worse is someone who betrays you while pretending to be a good person, lies without remorse, manipulates every situation, and somehow always paints themselves as the victim.
You can tell a lot about a person by what they do after hurting you. Some apologize. Some reflect. Some change. And some will rewrite the entire story in their head just to avoid feeling guilty. Accountability is rare because protecting the ego is easier than becoming better.