The 10th man rule is a common sense tactic that holds that if a group of people have reached a conclusion, the final person should assume the others are wrong.
I’m a liar for sure, because I don’t think I’ve actually loved a single man I said I did. I just loved the sides of me they brought out, viewed them as extensions of myself, and then been put off when they didn’t conform to the image I had of them as such.
I was put through the WRINGER this year fr. At one point crying myself to sleep every fucking day, negative thousands of dollars in my account, feeling lost, being hurt, going weeks without work. But ya Allah said, be patient. Allah is with those who are patient.