In 2020, a large, hidden group of disabled Americans, some with chronic physical illnesses and others with anxiety disorders like agoraphobia and contamination OCD, experienced a flood of validation and care the likes of which they'd never experienced.
Knowing that ADHD/Autistic folk are prone to Rejection Sensitivity Disorder should change the way you date. Saying “no” to an AuDHDer is more like telling a neurotypical to kill themselves. One date, just a couple hours of your life, is not too much to ask for and really helps