@huesofluck yang gw qrt jg krn dia blg kl ga bikin cape ga dijauhin like how confident we are for us to think that we are NOT making people exhausted too??? that’s why we do communication kan?? 🤷🏻♀️ kl udh komunikasi tp emg sikapnya msh jelek mah up to you mau lgsg ditinggalin jg
ya berarti lu immature. gabisa komunikasi, gabisa menyelesaikan masalah. mau ngejauh itu hak lu but at least kl lu consider pernah dkt sm org trs tbtb gakmau lagi tuh tinggal ngmg aja. what a freak.
gue dulu juga mikirnya gini. but now i realize, sometimes orang ngejauh bukan sengaja mau nyakitin, tapi karna mereka ga bisa handle conflict, takut confrontation, emotionally overwhelmed, atau emang belom punya emotional maturity buat explain their feelings properly
Can yall handle it though when someone says, “elu boring, elu gaada value di hidup gue, selera musik lu sampah, lu stan BTS, lu baca buku Ika Natassa” to your face?
immature katanya. padahal kebanyakan yang dilihat dan dinotice cuma "ghosting" nya doang, dan langsung judge. tapi males banget effort buat gali kenapa dia sampe milih buat ilang gitu. karna kejadiannya berulang terus sampe muak, bukan sekali dua kali lagi.
@4ethelnally berarti kl kayak gini emg udh ada action sblmnya before you decided to cut it off and there’s nothing wrong with it. i’d do the same if i were you though. it’s just weird that people ga paham konteks awal si op :/ anw sorry if my response was bad, didn’t mean to! <3