Whatโs everyone up to this weekend? Anyone else driving three hours to tell their dad that he has a child he didnโt know about on the anniversary of his mumโs death? Anyone? No? Just me? Ok. Cool ๐ซ
@_Becomingmum So he got a girl pregnant in the 70s. She didnโt know until she gave birth, and he was gone by then. Baby was given up for adoption. She found us because my sister did one of those DNA tests and they came up as a close match.
We are all downing the alcohol, but still havenโt worked up the nerve to do it. Cooking dinner. Do we do it as entree? Mains? Dessert? Every time he leaves the room, we all share a panicked look. Whoโs going to say something first?
@StrugglingMamma Iโve been pretty quiet my end! Life is so busy!
Weโve been messaging this afternoon. She seems nice. Very excited! She was adopted and didnโt have a nice adopted family, so is hoping weโre nice I think! She was happy we were willing to talk
@KrystalB1221 Iโm totally flipping out. My sister did one of those ancestry dna test things and the half sister reached out. Dad doesnโt know about her. I donโt know how heโll take it!
My head hurts.
@StrugglingMamma IVF fucks you up so much. As you know!
I definitely donโt think itโs right what sheโs done and doing, but also I can kind of understand why. But still, I think itโs so selfish to not allow other people their own happiness to spare your feelings.