Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
Stay single until you find a man who respects you... not just when it’s convenient, not just when things are good, but especially when life gets hard and you're not at your best. Stay single until you meet someone who doesn’t make promises just to sound good in the moment, but actually follows through....because his word means something to him, and so do you.
Don’t rush to fill a space just because you’re tired of being alone. You’re not desperate... you’re deserving. Deserving of a man who doesn’t play with your emotions or make you question your worth.
A man who understands that consistency is a form of love. That showing up, being honest, and following through are the foundation of something real.
So until then... take yourself out, love yourself hard, and protect your peace. Being single isn’t lonely when you’re surrounded by self-respect. It’s a season of clarity, healing, and learning how to never again settle for less than you deserve.
Because when you finally meet the man who respects you and keeps his word, you’ll realize why it never worked with anyone else.
girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence. the one who sees your heart without judgment. the one who holds your dreams with care.
i want romance soooo badddddd im tired of settling for the bare minimum, i want flowers, notes, lunch, pop ups, dates , walk inna parks, body massages, meditate together, pray together, work out together, be creative together... like i just want that all around love