Let’s dare to dive into the opposite direction of our fixation to regain our sensitivity. If I need to feel special, I must contact ordinariness, if I need to be useful, I need to connect with my own needs, if I need to preserve a state of peace, I might need to befriend chaos.
Try this: leave your house without the strategy that has always worked for you. If you‘ve been the ‘clown’, the ‘helper’, the ‘witty’, the ‘emphatic’, what would it be like not relying on that familiar role?