In âpetalâ, Ariana Grande plays Pepper, a woman auditioning for a role. Despite repeatedly changing her appearance and proving her talent, she keeps getting rejected.
The critics judging her tell her sheâs ânot good enoughâ, âboringâ, lacks âsex appealâ, should âget some work doneâ, âchange her hairstyleâ, and that sheâs âdesperateâ. But when she changes herself to meet those expectations, getting breast implants, wearing more makeup⊠they suddenly tell her sheâs had âtoo much work doneâ, is âdistractingâ, and wears âtoo much makeupâ. Eventually, she kills them.
This mirrors what Ariana herself has experienced throughout her career. She constantly reinvents herself, explores new artistic directions, and changes both musically and visually, yet it never seems to be enough. Sheâs constantly criticized and called some of the most awful things, often disguised as âhumorâ or âconcernâ. Even parts of her own fanbase, people who should support her, have turned against her multiple times.
This isnât just Arianaâs plea to stop being dissected and scrutinized until she loses herself. Itâs also a broader commentary on the impossible standards placed on women.
Theyâre expected to be beautiful, quiet, composed and accommodating, even while being constantly judged. And when they finally react to that pressure, theyâre depicted as âcrazyâ, âdramaticâ or âoverreactingâ. The reality is that very few people ever stop to consider how they actually feel.
Maybe the problem was never Ariana. Maybe it was the impossible standards we expected her to live up to.