Not to be THAT dictionary, but…
It’s ‘per se,’ not ‘per say.’
It’s ‘dog-eat-dog world,’ not ‘doggy-dog world.’
It’s ‘hunger pangs,’ not ‘hunger pains.’
It’s ‘one and the same,’ not ‘one in the same.’
It's 'buck naked,' not 'butt naked.'
I really want us to eliminate the idea that just because someone is family, we are supposed to give them more grace and subject ourselves to their negative behavior. The notion that I’m expected to compromise my boundaries simply because we are related is absolutely insane.