It sounds dramatic, but I genuinely decided to end my relationship with my boyfriend because he “teased” or jokingly said that if we had a daughter, and she inherited my looks and turned out really beautiful, he might feel attracted to her in an incestuous way. He laughed, but I couldn’t stop thinking about what kind of person even says that.
Dear women,
If you can afford a maid please do, if you can get a cook, please get one.
Always look for ways to make your life easier. There’s no award for the mom who works the hardest but lost herself in the process.
Preserve yourself. Normalize not doing everything yourself.
its so scary how marriage is supposed to be this happy beautiful thing but everytime a rishta comes up my brain instantly goes “what if mine turns abusive” and i literally can’t breathe
think i’ve just seen too much shit on social media and it’s stuck in my head fr
I used to think the most productive Muslims woke up at Fajr and grinded 12 hours.
Then I read how the Prophetﷺ actually structured his day. And I realised we've been copying the wrong people.
Just realised if you’re disrespected at work you have an option to opt out of it, But there’s no option to opt out if you are facing worse humiliation with your family. *sigh* what is life …
The difference in how mothers treat their sons vs their daughters is insane. You do one thing that she doesn’t like and you’re called the biggest ‘azaab’ of her life. The son does an actual mistake and it’s laughing it off all casually…