James Yoder

be kind to yourself. love is the answer.

[James Yoder @notjamesyoder]

We have no control over who we’re born as. People’s beliefs originate from the environments they’ve been in. Someone that disagrees with you may only do that because they don’t have the same experience with the subject as you.

[Yung Pueblo @YungPueblo]

You cannot build a deep connection with someone who is disconnected from themselves

[James Yoder @notjamesyoder]

@ChristianStask1 Hell yeah 🛎️ ding

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

I’ve worked with many people who claim they’re fine but are actually in a functional freeze response. They tend to be high achievers and workaholics who perform well and feel numb inside. Almost as if they’re watching themselves live life, not experiencing it

[James Yoder @notjamesyoder]

“I’ll heal so I won’t hurt you.”

[James Yoder @notjamesyoder]

“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.” ……

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Shame creates defensiveness.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Control is a coping mechanism for dealing with fear and uncertainty.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Longevity of marriage doesn’t mean there’s fulfillment or emotional connection.

[James Yoder @notjamesyoder]

@Theholisticpsyc Can you do some case study examples? I find it nice to relate to someone in similar situations

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

How your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

The opposite of trauma is connection.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

The more self aware you become, the more you understand you can’t fix anyone else’s deep rooted issues.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

If you show frustration or anger through: sighing, giving the silent treatment, or making sarcastic comments, you have a passive aggressive communication style.

Here's why:

[James Yoder @notjamesyoder]

@Skrillex I appreciate your transparency. We’re human, it’s okay to fall down. I’m happy you’re doing better.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Healing is how we re-write our own life story.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Codependency: how you feel about me is how I feel about me.

[James Yoder @notjamesyoder]

“I had to stop trying to be a great man, so I could be a good man.”

favorite quote right now

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Emotional intimacy can be terrifying if you’ve never truly been seen.

[James Yoder @notjamesyoder]

@Theholisticpsyc Slatington, PA 😊

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

We just reached 700k🎉 As a huge thank you to this community, I’m giving away signed copies both of my books.

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