Having a companion fixes you in time and that the present, but when the quality of aloneness settles down, past, present, an future all flow together. A memory, a present event, an a forecast all equally present.
- John Steinbeck, Travels With Charley
In Robinson Crusoe (1719), Daniel Defoe described the “upper station of low life” — the middle class—as the one best suited to happiness: cushioned on the one hand from the sufferings of the poor, and on the other from the pride, luxury, and envy of the rich.
The great disasters of life appear most among the top and bottom, where for very different reasons, feelings of uneasiness and insecurity lead more often to personal calamity.
How much has changed in 304 years? Is the middle class still best placed to enjoy life without stress and strain?
I am struck that among the wealthy people I know, their eyes are focused not on who is below, but on the people above them. You don’t get happy because you now have $5 million.
When you have 5, you begin to think about how get to 50, or to 500.
"You can know the name of that bird in all the languages of the world, but when you're finished, you'll know absolutely nothing whatever about the bird."
— Feynman's father, from Surely You're Joking Mr Feynman?