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My husband watched me cry for 47 minutes last night and didn’t hug me once. Me: “So you’re really just gonna sit there?” Husband: “Yeah.” Me: “While I’m crying?” Husband: “Yeah.” Me: “Wow.” Husband: “Are you ready to answer my question?” Me: “How can you even care about that right now?” Husband: “Because that’s why we’re having this conversation.” Me: “You see your wife crying and all you care about is being right?” Husband: “I didn’t say that.” Me: “You don’t gotta say it.” I started crying even harder. He still didn’t move. Me: “You used to comfort me.” Husband: “I did.” Me: “So what changed?” Husband: “I noticed something.” Me: “What?” Husband: “Every time I bring up something you did, you cry.” Me: “Because you hurt my feelings.” Husband: “Last month I asked why you told your sister something private about our marriage.” Me: “And?” Husband: “You cried. We spent an hour talking about my tone. Never discussed what you told her.” I went quiet. Husband: “Before that, I asked why you spent $2,800 from our savings without telling me.” Me: “You yelled.” Husband: “I didn’t yell.” Me: “You raised your voice.” Husband: “And somehow we spent that whole night discussing my voice instead of the $2,800.” Me: “Okay, but you made me feel attacked.” Husband: “Then there was your ex.” Me: “Oh my God.” Husband: “I asked why you were texting him at midnight.” Me: “It wasn’t like that.” Husband: “You cried before answering.” Me: “Because you accused me of cheating.” Husband: “No. I asked why you were texting him.” Me: “Same thing.” Husband: “No, it ain’t.” That’s when he said something that really got me. Husband: “I finally realized your tears end every conversation you don’t wanna have.” Me: “So now I’m manipulating you?” Husband: “I didn’t say that.” Me: “That’s literally what you’re implying.” I started crying again. He looked at me for a few seconds. Husband: “See?” Me: “See WHAT?” Husband: “We were supposed to be talking about you lying to me yesterday. Now we’re talking about whether I’m a bad husband because you’re crying.” I ain’t even know what to say. Husband: “You’re allowed to cry. But we’re finishing the conversation after you’re done.” ................

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@desdeersa @SizweDhlomo Mic skills were weak.

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@i3Kirb You go pee, it's gone.

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@Mosalagae20 @MokgethwaMacha1 Uhm, no.

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@MokgethwaMacha1 Grootman you really gotta let go of this mentality, it's backwards thinking tbh cause what do you mean a level 3 is better than a distinction? People should shine where they can and not be forced to do fit in spaces that aren't meant for them.

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