Ray🧑🏾‍💻

a southern gent 🍑 🥃
creative | pop culture | 👋🏾, I’m raylatable.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

Forgot to tell y’all the good news! 📰 Excited to be one of Augusta’s Top 10 Young Professionals to Watch. 🚀

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

In toxic relationships, you have to hold both parties accountable for the circumstances of the relationship.

Rarely is there ever someone completely innocent (or guilty) for the demise of the relationship.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

Sometimes the issue isn’t finding the “villain” and the “victim.”

Sometimes two people are stuck in a cycle where both deny their part, defend their actions, attack each other’s flaws, and fight to prove they’re the one who was hurt.

Accountability is what breaks the cycle.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

Also, there’s DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender.

It’s when someone gets called out for their own behavior and immediately flips the script until they’re the “victim” and the person holding them accountable becomes the “villain.”

Once you see it, it’s hard to unsee.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@duffthebrand

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@TheBaddestMitch How we know she don’t need to get up offa him? 🤣

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@TechTeddy Lol not new meat 🤣

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

I love having a movie night with friends. Or board games…

[` @schiz04renic]

we really lost the art of friends coming over just to hang out

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@_NeonViolet I’d love to have her back! I feel like we didn’t get to see all of her since she was pregnant twice on the show.

I’d somehow want to add Kandi, Eva and Kenya back into the mix.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@_NeonViolet I’d take that too lol. It seems like she’d be really relevant to this cast.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@MostWanted8_8 Yes! And they do that with RHOA and RHOP more than any other franchise.

They just want everyone fired when the housewife doesn’t behave how they’d like.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@duffthebrand I agree, she doesn’t need to return. We have a good group of ladies, & I don’t mind them all returning.

I feel only fake fans are the ones calling for her to return so they can have more memes/clips to use on social lol.

Real fans know the old Nene ain’t coming back.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@twilitaries @B_Rye989 Yes! People struggle with that. They will call anyone they perceive as antagonistic as the “true villain.”

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@micology_ We loved the album too!

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@cuttapotato This convinced me to listen to this album before bed lol. Thanks lol

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@AVIOUSRASHAD But I’m hoping Kandi will become a friend. She’s been brought up a few times, and I think that would help Shamea out lol.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

To me, this means no cast shake-up. Likely everyone is returning.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@B_Rye989 I agree. As soon as it caught on, it was cancelled.

[Ray🧑🏾‍💻 @notraysean]

@Apollop207 @TB_insight @PopBase I didn’t say that… at all.