A narcissist wants to convince you that your reactions to their actions are the problem-when in reality, without their actions, there would be no reactions.
NEVER TRUST A MAN WHO gets upset over your reactions to his actions! You got mad because of what he did, and now he’s mad because you reacted. Then, he tries to gaslight you by saying you’re always arguing or creating negativity. No, that’s MANIPULATION. That’s narcissistic behaviour. You don’t get to hurt people and then play the VICTIM when they call you out.
i'll never understand how people can treat others like garbage and not feel bad. if i'm ever rude to somebody i think about it the whole day regretting it