If your mother wasnβt a wife, she canβt hand you that playbook.
Find happily married women.
Buy them lunch.
Ask the questions.
Borrow wisdom so the right man has no doubt what you are.
@TheOdin_II and be confident that
β’ it is a career (which includes transferable skills and a professional identity)
β’ it will not be replaced by AI soon.
women who have chosen to live without men, come to the front. ask yourself:
will AI eventually take my employment?
do i have enough to survive to retirement without employment?
if not, do i have a skill that can replace my income quickly?
is that my current sidegig?
there is an urgent need for women like this to also begin pulling money together to buy land for food and build small houses.
you'll laugh now. you'll look at this again later.
women cannot choose their husbands. they can be the woman that is chosen. we can accept the proposal wisely, with the assistance of our fathers, brothers and uncles.
stop traveling and shopping. start saving and investing in gold and conservative stocks.
stop arguing and judging. start cooperating and compromising.
stop hating men. start understanding men.
@mentalist1708 i would say A. being tied to the ego of the victim identity. we refuse to let go of past experiences and that means everything can be labeled abusive, leaving no room for working things out.
Many men join the gym for one reason.
They want to look better.
A few months later something funny happens.
They are sleeping better, thinking clearer, and suddenly caring less about drama.
Lifting heavy weights somehow becomes free therapy.
If you can't afford to let your child's mother stay home for at least 6 months with the baby without worrying about bills,
you have no business getting her pregnant.
Be responsible
we are joyfully married.
we've lost businesses.
foreclosed homes.
ran successful businesses.
purchased homes.
raised children.
heard them say they don't like us.
hugged them tight when they left the house.
now we have grandchildren.
we are joyfully married, for life.