Leaving Single

💍 Building wives, not partners - 20+ years married. Wife training from a long line of happily married women.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

If your mother wasn’t a wife, she can’t hand you that playbook.

Find happily married women.
Buy them lunch.
Ask the questions.
Borrow wisdom so the right man has no doubt what you are.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@Lifeof_AG01 neither is better than the other. just different.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@Kami1266388 i don't want marriage and children.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@TheOdin_II and be confident that
• it is a career (which includes transferable skills and a professional identity)
• it will not be replaced by AI soon.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@Ojoye_Tosin then you've already prepared. congratulations. send this to your friends who haven't.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

women who have chosen to live without men, come to the front. ask yourself:

will AI eventually take my employment?
do i have enough to survive to retirement without employment?
if not, do i have a skill that can replace my income quickly?
is that my current sidegig?

there is an urgent need for women like this to also begin pulling money together to buy land for food and build small houses.
you'll laugh now. you'll look at this again later.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

women cannot choose their husbands. they can be the woman that is chosen. we can accept the proposal wisely, with the assistance of our fathers, brothers and uncles.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

stop traveling and shopping. start saving and investing in gold and conservative stocks.
stop arguing and judging. start cooperating and compromising.
stop hating men. start understanding men.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

we need to learn that hurt and damage are two different things.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@mentalist1708 i would say A. being tied to the ego of the victim identity. we refuse to let go of past experiences and that means everything can be labeled abusive, leaving no room for working things out.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@godlywomanhood interesting... didn't know that. it's not the story being told.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@MinisterOutlook @Prestigious_Gt 😅😉

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

my husband is 63 and lifts heavy 3 days /week. thank. god.

[TOP G @menscoach1]

Many men join the gym for one reason.

They want to look better.

A few months later something funny happens.

They are sleeping better, thinking clearer, and suddenly caring less about drama.

Lifting heavy weights somehow becomes free therapy.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

this is facts. and if she wants marriage and a child, there can also be a willingness to live at his means, happily.

[Shubhvani @shubhvanii]

If you can't afford to let your child's mother stay home for at least 6 months with the baby without worrying about bills,

you have no business getting her pregnant.

Be responsible

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@thriving__kids the library is the spot for women who say 'entertaining kids is expensive'.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@driaguyy i told her to ask men... feel free to answer.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

@UdomEtop the specialties lie with me though.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

i can't wait until we both hit hard.

[tcher @driaguyy]

Me tweeting. My audience.

[Leaving Single @nova_cato]

we are joyfully married.
we've lost businesses.
foreclosed homes.
ran successful businesses.
purchased homes.
raised children.
heard them say they don't like us.
hugged them tight when they left the house.
now we have grandchildren.
we are joyfully married, for life.