bezrobocie złe bo brak pieniędzy, praca na niepełny etat zła bo mało pieniędzy, praca na cały etat zła bo brak czasu na życie... ja po prostu powinnam siedzieć w domu i dostawać hajs za nic
i just realized people who overexplain themselves aren’t looking for validation. They’re just used to not being believed - forced to prove their memories, their pain, their worth, their truth - until they’re exhausted from just existing
“I’m not THAT traumatized!” meanwhile you perpetually feel like you’re on thin ice with everybody and that all it’ll take to be abandoned is one unintentional screw-up
being excluded has always been the Worst trigger for me it makes me feel like the most unwanted disgusting pitiful creature ever and i revert back to being that little kid sitting alone at lunch while everyone laughs and makes plans without me
A Gen Z joined the team.
Week one.
During onboarding, the manager said,
“We sometimes stay late during peak periods.”
Gen Z nodded.
Then asked,
“Is that paid… or just expected?”
The room went quiet.
- No attitude.
- No rebellion.
- Just a question.
Later that day, HR mentioned “growth opportunities.”
Gen Z replied,
“Does growth include raises, or just more responsibility?”
Again, silence.
- No laziness.
- No entitlement.
- Just clarity.
That’s when the team realized something.
When people say
“Gen Z is lazy,”
what they really mean is:
Gen Z watched old generation
- skip meals,
- miss birthdays,
- work weekends,
- and burn out
only to be told
“budgets are tight”
and “be grateful you have a job.”
So Gen Z chose differently.
- They don’t romanticize overwork.
- They don’t confuse suffering with ambition.
- They don’t trade health for praise.
They still work hard.
They just refuse to work for nothing.
It’s not laziness.
It’s pattern recognition.
And honestly,
after everything old generation went through…
Can you really blame them?
if you date someone with depression, anxiety, ptsd etc, you have to make sure you are their safe home. beware for the crying over small things, getting upset or angry over little things, over thinking,or not being able to sleep or go out. don’t date them if you can’t handle it
People say, “Just reach out.”
But when you’ve spent your life being shut down, ignored, or punished for having basic needs.
Reaching out feels like walking into fire.
Fucking impossible.