I’ve felt a shift in my mind. Maybe it’s getting older. Maybe it’s a shift in energy in the universe. Like a voice calling to me. The younger me would’ve despised the person I’ve been acting like. I became what I said I would never be. One could chalk it up to hurt ppl hurt ppl but I refuse to be so flippant and nihilistic about myself. In order to exact the change I want to see it requires intention. Intention requires direction and at least some discipline. There’s nuance to every situation. Ppl like to approach a lot of situations with absolutes. That is fundamentally not only short minded but unsustainable. Being able to take yourself out of dichotomy allows you to see from both sides and ultimately be smarter and more well rounded. Some ppl call it fence sitting. That’s a straw man fallacy. Of course it’s not going to be easy. Your own biases and sense of self derived from either your own experiences or your upbringing will be like a nagging voice in the back of your head telling you this is this way so it must mean this or etc. I fall victim to it myself sometimes. However you can’t operate like that and expect to come out on top of anything. All you’ll do is short change yourself and limit your mind trying to fit a mold you believe in. Understandably so however a lot of ppl aren’t comfortable with that. It’s easy to pick a side and just sit there. Group thought and mob mentality are key examples of this. So I get it. Navigating ways of thinking and your emotions in one way (especially one that’s comfortable to you) feels better. I won’t say it’s easy but it’s definitely easier. I say all this to say that the experiences I’ve been thru and nuances I’ve worked around has allowed me this ability. Not saying this is the end all be all. It doesn’t always work for everything. All I’m saying is it’s helped me grasp things most ppl say are ungraspable. Help me navigate my way thru emotions I thought to be impossible to navigate. Intention requires direction. And I know exactly where I want to go.
Bryce saying all the other relationships besides him & Trinity started more on the lustful side lol i’m so sick of hearing this word on the show #LoveIslandUSA
The idea behind it is so laughably ridiculous too because most of them will justify it as reparations for shitty men’s actions but all it amounts to is their complicity being bought which is arguably worse
the fact that women on the internet think it’s normal for a man to just give away money you did nothing to help him earn is so concerning to me man lmao
Aniya FC told me KC was an incel for calling her a grandma, only for Aniya to take the comment exactly how we've been telling y'all this whole time: it was about her always being asleep.