Reminder depression isn’t just sleeping and sadness its also irritability, rage, burnout and its also a response to capitalist white supremacist patriarchal everything.
I’m not going to lie. I’m not married and we both work but I expect EVERYTHING to get done by either of us ANY way we choose to see fit. I always say , i don’t care HOW it gets done, but it must be done. If we pay someone then we pay someone. If we do it ourselves then so be it
The biggest mistake you can make on the internet is assuming every single piece of advice must apply perfectly to your unique circumstances.
Everything isn’t for you. Context always matters.
if people understood how extensively childhood trauma impacts behavior in adults, we would be much more patient with people.
i was reading this morning about triggers and one is having people upset with you. it activates feelings of shame.
think about that + internet culture.
@iamflymack@matete_ Bra the wildest times... you knew December was officially peaking when errrbody congregated there after Cappello at 2am... had its dry nights doe