Nawaitu Lillahi Ta'ala, Hasbunallah Wanikmal Wakil, Nikmal Maula Wanikman Nasir
"ya' Allah berikanlah kemudahan atas semua perjalanan hidupku serta ubahlah masa depanku menjadi lebih baik"
Marriage isnโt about 50:50. Itโs not about 100:0 either.
Yesterday I wasnโt feeling well. Husb bought us dinner from pasar malam and fed me medicine while I was in bed. He ironed the clothes for us and the kids, did the laundry and washed the dishes.
Today, he went to bed early. Just after Isyak, he dozed off. I could see how exhausted he was. So I took care of the rest of the house chores, ironing the clothes, doing the laundry and washing the dishes.
You see, yesterday, it was 30:70. And today, itโs 70:30. The ratio is never fixed. Sometimes itโs 55:45. Sometimes itโs 60:40. Depends on day. Sometimes it even got to 43.8:56.2
Marriage is about partnership. Itโs about complementing and backing each other up. You canโt define it by an exact ratio. As long as both respect each other, understand partnership and responsibility, theyโll make it, insyaAllah.