We got into an argument and i yelled at him LOUD ASF. He looked at me and said, “I’m in love with you. One day I want to marry you and have kids with you, so you need to find a way to communicate without yelling because I won’t have us arguing in front of our kids.” i— 😭😭😭
In your 20s, you will meet a guy who will make you feel something you haven’t felt in a long time.
He will text you every day, call you at night, ask about your day, make you laugh, and remind you what it feels like to be wanted.
And for a moment, you’ll think, “Maybe this is it. Maybe this is finally my person.”
It is very important you don’t lose yourself in that excitement.
A man cannot acknowledge the pain he caused when he is still ashamed of who he was while causing it. He has not matured enough to say
“I failed you.” He has not softened enough to say
“You did not deserve that.” He has not grown enough to say “My behavior pushed you into reactions I created.” This is not about you lacking worth or him lacking love. This is about him lacking courage.
Welp he did something that completely ruined my perception of him and all of my good feelings are gone and replaced with indifference and disgust! IM FREEEEEEE
A lot of people romanticize the idea that soulmates always find their way back.
I used to believe that too.
Honestly… I believed it way too much.
Here’s the part nobody on this app ever tells you:
Sometimes the person you think is your soulmate
is just the person who hurt you in the most familiar way.
Years ago, I had someone I thought was destined for me.
We kept breaking up and reconnecting, again and again.
Every time we drifted apart, I told myself:
If we’re meant to be, we’ll return to each other.
And guess what?
We did return
but not because of destiny.
Because neither of us had the courage to finally let go.
The last time we split, it broke me.
I wasn’t just heartbroken, I was angry at myself for calling that chaos fate.
But here’s the twist:
When I finally walked away, I met someone who didn’t feel like a soulmate
They felt like home.
No push-and-pull.
No disappearing acts.
Just peace.
That’s when it hit me:
People don’t return because they’re destined.
They return because you haven’t healed.
Soulmates aren’t the ones who always come back.
They’re the ones who don’t have to leave.
I heard a lady on a podcast say...."I finally get it...I am the problem. I walk into people's life with energy, loyalty, love, and peace they never had...and truthfully, never deserved. I disrupt their comfort zone of chaos. They're not used to real. They're addicted to dysfunction. That's why they start acting weird... because my presence requires growth, and they aren't ready for that. Cool I'll take a step back. Keep your mess. I'll keep my peace!!