You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.
I pernah baca ada sorang lelaki ni cerita yang dia tak jadi suicide sebab waktu tu teringin makan mee. So dia decide nak makan dulu then baru suicide, tapi rupanya2 lepas makan tu, all his dark thoughts hilang.
Hanya dengan makan mee, such a small thing tapi completely changed his life trajectory.
So like i said, small things matter. And ni la yang keep us going in this life
Love to see smart women talking. Btw I rasa sangat penting untuk every muslim ambil tahu cara jawab issue controversi yg non muslim/ Islamophobia selalu tanya. Dorang selalu tanya topik apa?
1. Issue perkahwinan Nabi Muhammad dengan Aisha
2. Poligami
3. Hudud
5. Aurat
6. Kedudukan wanita dlm masyarakat
Islamophobia suka cakap pasal issue2 macam ni sebab dorang tahu some muslim tak tahu nak bahas benda ni. Bagi dorang, bila Muslim tak berani bahas, kiranya macam kita “mengiyakan” apa yg dorang cakap
So kita actually kena tingkatkan ilmu lagi utk jaga nama baik agama, dan elakkan fitnah.
Today I read a post that said "Allah is not in a hurry, you are. That's why you're tired, anxious, stressed and dissapointed. Trust what was meant to be yours, will be yours. Unrush yourself”
Gotta eat pasta in italy, croissant in paris, burger in united states, sushi in japan, tacos in mexico, shawarma in lebanon, paella in spain, poutine in canada, kimchi in south korea, curry in india, pho in vietnam, fondue in switzerland and fish & chips in united kingdom.