Nontando Khubisa

Changing the things I cannot accept

[slimmer shady @totauddd]

My death is more guaranteed than my wedding so instead of looking for my soulmate im going to look for my soul

[Re!kò🎀 @itsreikoz]

my intuition is crazy. i can literally have zero evidence of what is going on but still know there’s a whole script running behind my back. i am never wrong.

[tido bling @tiido_bling]

I need to win the lottery between now and Friday morning.

[Wayne @WayneH__]

I have nothing further to say about this economy. If we want to see each other, it will have to be at our respective homes for tea and biscuits.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

I only confront people i want to fix things with. If I let it go, it is because I don't really care about how things end up between us.

[Urenna @BridgetUrenna]

I’m a materialistic woman. I like the nicest things, and I want to be able to afford whatever I want at any time without flinching. ‘I want it, I get it.’

[𝓢𝓱𝓪𝔂𝔂𝔂 🧚🏾‍♀️✨✨ @_iamhershayyy]

I think men start to resent you when you are good to them & they know they don’t deserve it

[Wow, He’s Tsonga! @_aboihasnoname]

You don’t realise how much of a set back it is not to let go of people sooner, until you finally let them go.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

Another problem with having a good heart is that people think you're stupid.

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

My daddy issues are that my father is so amazing I had to learn the hard way that men are actually horrible people in real life.😭🤞

[Nontando Khubisa @ntandok]

@Taghandler Last scan at 38 weeks said 3.5kg, she came in at 4.8kg at 40 weeks

[Mrs. Gore @MrsGoresDiary]

The other night my little girl told me her hands were stinky so we got her all cleaned up and I asked if she would like some of my special L’occitane lotion that I keep by the bed. “It’s for ladies,” I told her with ceremonious tones.

So now, the last thing she does after I have tucked her into her crib every night is stick out her little hands and say, “Mom? My lady lotion?”

It’s too much. We are so fancy and important.

[Miriam Ogbonna @miriamogb]

I like money, but money is NOT the first thing I look out for in a man.

I will not be with a wealthy guy who doesn’t have home training.

I’d rather be with a guy who fends well for himself and has good home training.

I cannot be ‘training’ an adult. It’s abnormal.

[Favour Adeniyi 🤭 @afrotechbabe]

Yes, they don’t die but they can slow down. It’s okay to be completely honest about these things. It serves us better when we’re honest about our lived reality as women in this world.

[Small Waist, Pretty Face. @oddettem]

One of my friends went completely silent for a whole YEAR. She locked in, chose God, chose sobriety, and didn’t look back. Now she’s in her new home, driving her new car, running her own hair studio/school.
When God says “detach,” you don’t owe anyone a reason. You just surrender. I never took her silence personal, and watching the blessings that followed her obedience has been beautiful.

[Tifeh🤎 @Misturrah]

I love people who were raised right. They do things with common sense, intuition and respect.

[goma @soigomaa]

hearing a man say “I WAS GOING TO” is such a turn off because first, you didn’t, and second, you’re lying

[Gloriaaa ❤️😍 @ladyhuneybee]

We really have a WHOLE new generation of men who don't want to PROTECT or PROVIDE.

[Jaiddaa🎀 @muullaa_baby]

I think men are becoming too content with being useless. You guys literally Can’t fix shit, can’t build, don’t pay for shit , struggling to plan dates . Like what are you really here for??