The worst feeling for a woman is when she tries to have a conversation with a man about his behavior that hurts her every day, but instead of listening, he gets angry and turns the situation around on her and makes her look like she's the problem.
Update your partner always. It's not a rule, It's a love language Your partner shouldn't guess where you are. They shouldn't wonder what you're doing. Updating them is not control. It's love. It says, "You matter. I want you to know."