@reifreakouts its literally like “what would u do if you were like 10 rejections away from ur dream job” and apparently that motivates ppl to like not care
It is possible to see people (and their ill intentions) for who they are without taking their actions personally. Unlocking this mindset changed my life forever.
The best part of finding the right person is that you stop feeling like you have to perform. You get to be messy, exhausted, honest, and completely yourself and they choose you anyway. That kind of love changes something deep within you.
when hayao miyazaki said that true love was two people inspiring each other to live...recognizing just how hard living is, putting one foot in front of the other every day, how easy it is to lose our passion for it...... that's the real shit
@syrialhater lying out their ass the way they did while they were in that relationship “it didnt work out” “she just wasnt for me” “i was going thru a phase” play it off like the breakup was the other persons fault and default to "my ex was a bitch" bar for bar every time i love it
I just feel like once someone talks badly about you and tries to rekindle a friendship or relationship with you again you look dumb bc now ur the bad guy.
they genuinely dont know how to handle a relationship i almost pity them 😭 the only reason that i can get into this discussion now is bc im in a way better place
to me it was like they lie and say it didnt work out over something that couldve easily been fixed but they just created this false image of u in their heads and believed it and decided to run to someone else instead of communicating
and btw this is not even in a romantic context. so many times in life, i have found respect and love for people where it seemed odd for any soft feelings to exist and i was told by the people closest to me that it’s undeserved. needless to say, my friends were right.