@jain_harshit The male friends don't have to worry about safety, the female friend has to. Plus society can still excuse hostel lifestyle for men but they expect women to uphold a more dignified life 'handling' the other aspects of adult life, like taking care of an apartment.
@K10Jain I think its very similar to finding a really really good movie everyone should watch no matter what and convincing your friends and others of it.
@Lennaraudt@meeshamess A lot actually. If your story is good ppl watch it. Look at AOT. I don't remember any fan service or sexist fan service and its still very popular. Cheap sexist fan service is an excuse to not improve on story or writing front.
@ERrad_ulcer @CherryCola36 @LoserManuka But you can always negotiate duties and salary with your employer accordingly. If you're underpaid or undervalued you can always choose to move to next job where you'll be compensated well. Woman wanting the same provision is not wrong in marriage then.
@sparrow_hawk__ I feel like desired to be loved is itself an innate desire. I would rather understand where it comes from than getting rid of it. Being desired & wanted is natural. It is part of the human experience, and a source of motivation for great many things- poetry, art, books & more.
@meetzza 5th stage, grief is waiting to be accepted and let go of. Think of it as an uninvited guest that has overstayed its due and now wants to leave.
@gabriel1 there's so much more to me irrespective of the situation or circumstances I find myself in. And I think that's the sense of 'greater control'. Not about how many things I can influence but rather how many things cannot alter me significantly.
@gabriel1 This made me reflect a bit. 'I can have Y if X is available' sort of thinking is common in my life. Not realizing that I can have Y even if X is not available. This should be a freeing realization, one that sort of removes restrictions. But I think there's more to it. Like...
The worst feature youtube came up with in recent times is providing AI generated English audio by default. Make that a new button if you want but it is much much more irritating to go to video options and select the original audio track. This ruins the experience @YouTube