To those dragging VEEKEE JAMES, let me educate you.
TTC means TRYING TO CONCEIVE.
TTC has no year duration. It starts from any day the couple decides they want to start trying for a baby. Some people are very fertile so whether they decide or not, baby will come. Some people are very fertile but make a decision not to get pregnant and follow strict rules to avoid pregnancy while some people legit have fertility issues and go over and beyond to make babies.
So whichever category you belong to, TTC still starts when you make a conscious decision to start having kids. TTC for 1 year and TTC for 10 years still fall under TTC.. Sometimes Sex becomes a Chore and trust me, you donโt wish the heart break of every negative result on your worst enemyโฆ
HAVE A NICE DAY ๐ซถ๐ฝ
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the death of Damilola Balogun on the 1st of January 2026 ๐ข
Damilola was a loving wife, a devoted mother, and the main applicant for her family on skilled worker visa.
Just five months ago, she welcomed her beautiful baby into the world. What should have been a time of joy soon turned into a painful and tragic journey no family should endure.
It all started when Damilola began complaining of severe migraines. She visited Walsall Manor Hospital, where she was treated and discharged. Three days later, she returned with the same symptoms, but no cause was found and she was sent home again. Two weeks later, the headaches persisted, and this time she was admitted. Doctors administered antibiotics and carried out an MRI scan and a lumbar puncture.
The results revealed water on her brain, and Damilola was urgently referred to Queen Elizabeth Hospital, Birmingham, for surgery. The surgery was initially successful, and there was hope.
Tragically, three days later, Damilola went into a coma and was placed on life support. Despite all medical efforts and prayers, it was confirmed that she could not recover. On the morning of 1st January 2026, the life support machine was switched off.
While others were welcoming the first day of a new year in celebration, this family was plunged into unbearable grief.
Damilola leaves behind three children aged 11 years, 10 years, and a 5month old baby, her husband, her mother and grandmother.
Since this ordeal began, her husband has been unable to work, staying by her side throughout hospital admissions and recovery attempts. Their savings have been completely exhausted, and the family is now facing funeral costs and the immense responsibility of raising three children without their mother.
We are humbly asking for your support; no amount is too small. Your donation will help:
โขCover funeral and burial expenses
โขProvide immediate support for her children
โขEase the financial burden on the grieving family
Please consider donating and sharing this page. Let us come together to show this family that they are not alone during their darkest moment.
Thank you for your kindness, prayers, and generosity. ๐
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