No matter what you’re going through in life, always have faith in the Almighty. Trust that He wants the best for you, even if He doesn't give you exactly what you want, He's always taking care of your needs. You might not see it right away, but eventually it’ll all make sense.
Not all feedback deserves your attention. Some are constructive and good for you. Some are toxic and can have a negative effect on your well-being, both emotional and mental. Learn to be discerning. Remember, it’s always important to protect your mental and emotional well being.
To my amazing mama, my sisters, relatives, mothers, boss babes, and great females everywhere. Today and every day, we acknowledge and celebrate your work that has gotten us to where we are today. Here’s to strong, passionate, independent women. Happy Women’s Day! ���
Sometimes you may have to remove yourself from certain people in your life; those who won’t bat an eyelid about hurting you and continue to do so. It won’t be easy but you have to make a decision. It will bring you peace of mind and heal your soul!
If you have nothing good to say, remain silent. Each time you open your mouth to speak, you’re letting others know the state of your mind & what’s in your heart. If your heart is filled with bitterness, it will come out in your words. Be mindful of what’s going on inside you!
If you feel like you’ve been holding in a lot lately; suppressing all your emotions, I believe it's a good idea to give yourself some time to cry it out.
Let the tears flow, my friend. Tears won’t rust your armour.
And crying is how your heart speaks 💛
When the Almighty has blocked something, leave it. Don’t try to revive it. How would you know He’s blocked it? Read the signs. No matter what you do, it’s not yielding any positive results. This is part of His Plan. If you resist it, it will only give you anxiety and frustration.
There's nothing random about your life & where you are right now. Every step has been carefully planned by the Lord of the Worlds. This is where you need to be. This is where He wants you to be at this stage in your journey. Learn the lessons. They’re your greatest blessings!
At times, you’ve just got to let things go for your sanity and peace of mind. Don’t ask any questions or look for any answers. Don’t expect people to understand you. Don’t expect anything from anyone but the One who made you. You’ll have fewer disappointments that way.
Stop asking people probing personal questions. Why someone is not yet married or not having children is seriously not your business. Such is the struggle many are going through. Be kind. Be compassionate. And if you can’t be those, be quiet.
Stay true to yourself. Do your own thing and don’t worry about what people say. It might not make sense to them but that’s okay. Don’t expect everyone to understand you. They don't have to. It's between you and the Almighty. So keep going!
Be mindful when you speak. Choose your words carefully. Good or bad, words are little seeds that can make a big difference in the present & the future. Use your words to bring life to those around you. Don’t use your words to stab people & leave indelible marks in their hearts.