Don't disrespect yourself by begging anybody for the bare minimum. You will never have to ask the right person for attention, time, respect, loyalty, or love... because you're worth it and you deserve it. If someone doesn't give you the basics freely, don't try to force them.
Kita attached melekat pada jabatan, gelar, kekuasaan, popularitas, kekayaan, benda mewah yg kita punya, kebesaran leluhur, dan sebagainya. Untuk membesarkan keakuan-ego, yang berakibat konflik di mana-mana. Tanpa itu semua, sebenarnya kita bukanlah siapa-siapa.
Control your laziness, and you'll understand how much success you've been avoiding.
Control your doubts, and you'll understand how capable you truly are.
If you do not conquer thyself, you will be conquered by thyself. Correct your mind, and the rest will fall into place.
The best way to deal with emotional immaturity is no response. To stay grounded, calm, and to recognize it’s not your responsibility to raise anyone else.
One day, you'll understand why your timing was actually perfect & why things had to happen exactly the way they did. To protect you, to guide you, & to redirect you to where you were always meant to be. Trust the process of your path, evolution & growth – it's all divine timing.
girl. you study, you work, you are responsible, you dress well, you put yourself together every morning, you manage your money, you are educated & respectful, you are loyal, you have vision and plans for the future. who doesn't value that, doesn't deserve you.
Semoga kamu menemukan tempat dimana kehadiranmu dipenuhi apresiasi dan ketulusan hingga kamu merasa cukup aman dan nyaman untuk membuka diri dan terus mencintai, meski pernah terlukai.
Sekarang ini makin banyak distraksi. Orang pada makin sulit berkomitmen & setia. Mulai dari komitmen datang pada sebuah acara, sampai setia pada pasangan.
Skill penting: Latih diri untuk berkomitmen & setia. Apresiasi juga orang yang bisa berkomitmen & setia.