As somebody who’s normally the planner, it is absolutely music to my ears when I’m told plans/reservations have been made and all I gotta do is show up.
To all my empaths, healers, & simply light spirited people, I know we like to see the best parts of ppl but we have to stop ignoring the dark parts as well. Accept people for who they are in front of you, not who they’ll be after ___. That’s not your responsibility. Protect you
Don’t yall hate when you tell someone you don’t talk to a family member anymore and the first thing they say is life is short? Like yea I know…which is why I’m not finna spend it tolerating several forms of abuse and narcissism 😭TF
You have the power to create the life that you want. I’m not saying that it’s easy, but it is in your hands. The sooner you realize this, the sooner your life will start to change for the better.
A toxic trait I used to have was grabbing onto someone’s potential while not seeing them for who they actually were~ just bc you see the potential in someone doesn’t mean they’ll do anything with it & it took me a while to understand the importance of valuing action > potential.