STOP dealing with people who don't have people in their life to tell them THEY WRONG !! these type of people lack accountability, they'll do something wrong to you and still feel like they right and they find a bunch of yes folks to hop on the bandwagon and gaslight them..
although i'm ok with being single, i can't wait to actually meet someone who's actually interested in me. the constant craving of wanting to talk, asking about my day, my feelings, sharing laughter & being heard is so rare nowadays. nobody communicates anymore. real is rare.
He doesn’t want a relationship with you — he just wants access to you. He wants you close enough to answer his calls, to feed his ego, to make him feel wanted when he’s lonely. But he also wants you far enough away so he can keep his options open, talk to other women, and never be held accountable. It’s not love, it’s convenience.
He’ll say just enough to keep you hopeful, but never enough to make you secure. He’ll act like he cares when it benefits him, then pull away the moment you start asking for clarity or commitment. It’s a cycle — one that keeps you emotionally invested while he remains emotionally unavailable.
What he really wants is control, not connection. He enjoys knowing you’ll still be there, waiting, while he explores whatever else makes him feel powerful or desired. But you deserve more than being someone’s backup plan or temporary comfort. Love should bring peace, not confusion. If he wanted you, truly wanted you, he’d make sure there was no room for doubt — and no space for anyone else.
bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something.