I don’t want to lie , once you do something nice for me , i immediately start thinking of all the nice things to do for you too , no matter how big or small. i love reciprocating so much🫶
i will always be the “you could’ve just told me” kind of person.
not because i enjoy pain, but because i’ve lived long enough to know that the truth, no matter how heavy, is still kinder than being misled. i would rather feel the sting of honesty than spend nights overthinking, replaying conversations, or wondering what i did wrong. i don’t need people to protect me with silence, mixed signals, or carefully crafted lies. i just need people to be real with me
i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private.
This year has taught me that a good year can also be a hard year. I have held joy and pain in equal measure. The joy hasn't made it less painful & the pain hasn't made it less joyful. It’s the year I learnt what it means to hold all things in a delicate balance.
Let people do what they enjoy. Those features weren’t added for decoration, they’re there to be used. Judging someone’s IQ based on how they enjoy an app is wild. If it bothers you, mute, block, or remove yourself. Simple.