Becoming less reactive is a big part of growth and decreasing stress. Sometimes this type of avoidance can be looked at as lack of interest or uncaring, but it isn't. If you let everything get you worked up, you're damaging your mind, body and soul.
as a woman, I'm not tryna be equal with my partner Lmao I want to be taken care of.Contribute? Yes. but ultimately I wanna be taken care of. idc how anybody feels about it