You may have been loyal, but were you loved gently. You may have stayed, but were you held with care. You may have understood them, but did they ever try to understand what staying was doing to you. Loyalty is not noble when it teaches your heart to disappear.
The older I get, the more I understand why people disappear into gardening, baking, reading, and long walks. Not because life got boring. Because peace became valuable.
Some days feel heavy before you even get out of bed. The good news? You don't have to carry it alone, and you don't have to wait for the "right" moment to talk to God. He's not far off, He's not too busy, and He's not waiting for perfect words. Whatever's on your heart today, He's just a prayer away.
this man on tiktok said “youcannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior” and that’s real shit.
PLEASE avoid eggshell type of relationships, can't express yourself, can't be yourself, can't be straight forward, can't be comfortable, can't talk like adults, can't be heard, can't respond with love without it actually turning into something negative...