One day gents you must understand that women are reciprocators, not initiators. They step AFTER y’all step. You lead, they FOLLOW. Idk how else to explain this but it’s really SO simple.
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@AirCanada is quietly literally the worst airline, CONSISTENTLY behind schedule. Of all the trips, of all the airlines, they are by far the least reliable.
Men and women don’t fall in love the same way.. and that’s exactly why it’s so complicated, and so beautiful.
A woman often falls in love through ‘consistency’. It’s the little things. The good morning texts. The way you show up when you said you would. The feeling of safety, of being chosen again and again without having to question it.
A man often falls in love through ‘experience’. It’s how he feels around you. The peace. The admiration.The sense that he can be himself without being judged, and still be respected.
She listens for effort.
He feels for peace.
She needs emotional security to open up.
He needs emotional acceptance to stay open.
And here’s where it gets messy.. When she doesn’t feel consistency, she pulls back. When he feels pressure instead of peace, he pulls away.
So both people end up protecting themselves… instead of understanding each other.
Love isn’t about who loves “harder”It’s about learning how the other person loves and meeting them there.
Because the right connection isn’t confusing. It’s two people choosing to understand each other, even when it’s easier not to.
And when that happens?
It doesn’t feel like guessing.
It feels like home.
BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED
> Discuss bills.
> Parenting style.
> Religion.
> How to deal with family.
> Childhood traumas.
> Sexual expectations.
> Mental Health history.
> Career and education.
> Family Health history.
> Political Views.
> What believes will be instilled in your Children.
> Credit.
> Debt
> Partner expectations.
> Financial expectations.
i saw a girl say "If she has to ask for flowers she doesn't want them anymore" but that really goes for everything wether it be love, attention or appreciation, because it's no longer coming from you it's coming from me