@bakhita_esther How do we never learn surely.I thought is the women who never learn .that kid has a family since his dad is some where and the mum is here with her
Once a man goes through that one serious heartbreak, he will NEVER be that same man again. It will literally change his entire way of seeing women. Unless he refuses to learn…
A woman I was trying to pull strings with after Mama Watoto chased me out of my matrimonial home once told me that she regretted deleting the number of a rich man who had been pursuing her. That statement was an eye-opener for me, and just like the alpha male I am, I decided to take the L like a real man and walked away, and i continued focusing on upgrading myself.
But I swore that never again would a broke woman from a humble background see my nakedness. Mind you, this is a woman who never lacked anything under my leadership. I’m not a poor man, neither do I come from poverty, but the young lady still saw me as a fumble, comparing me to a rich man she had pushed away.
But you know women, they’ll say anything just to show you that they had options. If there was a rich man pursuing her, she wouldn’t hesitate to go. Probably the man supplied her with high-voltage electricity and disappeared into thin air.
Now, another man probably found himself in a similar situation to mine, but he lacked the emotional intelligence to walk away. Today, we woke up to another case of a young girl whose life has been cut short in what is said to be a love triangle.
Sabby Rianga was a second-year student at Jaramogi Oginga Odinga University of Science and Technology. She went missing last Thursday, and her lifeless body was later found dumped in Barkowino Forest in Bondo.
According to her social media posts, Sabby was seen enjoying life in Diani, Nanyuki, and Zanzibar, sleeping in five-star hotels and flying across the country. She chose to enjoy life instead of focusing on education. The painful part is that maybe her parents sold land to take her through school.
We usually teach young ladies here that you can’t live a soft life and fight poverty through shortcuts. Sabby was a second-year student. She wanted to live like a queen, just like many other young ladies aspire to. When you crave the soft life, you may get it, but most of the time, the price tag is attached to your soul.
Young men and ladies, if you went to school, college, or university to learn, please focus on your studies. In the event that you die not in the pursuit of knowledge, but while chasing likes and social media validation, then you're setting your parents up for disappointment & emotional damage.
Most of these young ladies often say their mothers were “sleeping in class” and ended up marrying their now struggling fathers, living lives they never chose for themselves or their children. We need to stop sugarcoating things and say it as it is.
We should teach our young women to be careful with free things. Strangers do not offer free money, you will pay for it one way or another. But we also need to teach men to be disciplined, guarded, and never to let emotions cloud their judgment. Ladies should learn the value of responsibility, loyalty, and respect.
Nothing in life comes for free, and when someone sacrifices to support you or carry your burden, appreciation and honesty should never be taken for granted. Betrayal affects people differently, and before using someone’s resources while taking their kindness for weakness, one should understand that actions always have consequences.
As much as we fight for justice and fairness, we also need to encourage our girls to live within their means, make wise decisions, and value integrity over greed. As men, we should learn to walk away in order to avoid finding ourselves in situations like the killer of Sabby found himself in. As always, feminist will come out gun blazing but we won't stop from telling these young ladies the truth.
@BDbiggest21063@juskems@MindOfHeadking Male friends are there to help them financially?I hope gentlemen out there you read this?Youre needed financially so if you are financial stable date all of them don’t stick to one woman
Dating is so crazy you can be so into somebody & thinking you getting somewhere. Whole time they’re thinking of their ex & dealing with somebody else or multiple people 😭 I hate it here