Jangan telan emosi, manage your emotion. Bila telan itu jadi resentment (dendam). You don't deal with your emotion and it manifest to perasaan benci baran which lead to horrible things. Abuse, cheating, suicidal thoughts. A good man seek help so tak bahayakan diri & orang lain.
Paling tak suka rasa tawar hati dalam apa apa context, which is so easy these days? Friendship ke, relationship, ke, work ke. Dia macam dah mentally checked out & a point of no return dah. Orang buat lah apa pun to fix it, mentally i’m done & i won’t budge.
Tadi borak2 dengan member, dia tanya..
"kalau tak kawin, Mak Ayah dah takde... Adik beradik semua dah ada family masing2.
1st Raya you akan buat apa?"
That question suddenly hit me so bad 😟