Being too nice to your girlfriend/wife bores her. Why? Because, simply put, niceness, for women, is a monotonous experience. And routine is boring - or, more safely put, less stimulating.
Women may be delusional, but “if he won’t do it, another man will” is not a delusion; it’s a fact they can back up with their experience of the society. Women enjoy benevolence from everyone and everything capable of such - the men, the society, the system - except nature, apparently.
So women know what they’re saying when they say, “if he won’t do it, another man will.” Because, truly, a man will.
Offer a woman a kind gesture at 4 p.m. on a Monday, and you’re probably the fifth person, and most and most certainly the fourth man, doing something of that nature for her that day. Do the same for a man at the same time, same day, and you’re probably the first and only man to have done something of that nature for him that day - and possibly in the previous days.
The man appreciates the gesture more, not only because he understands what it takes to expend such effort, but also because of its rarity in his experience. The woman, on the other hand, may appreciate it but will never give it the same level of significance as the man. She gets it every day from almost anyone. Anyway.
Your niceness will not sustain the attraction
J’ai commencé à taffer mes abdos comme ça alors que je les taffe jms, au bout de trois semaines j’avais déjà plus le bas du ventre qui pendouillais, mais bon MDR on doit écouter les coaches de Twitter
J ai insulté Safonov de gogole sur ses dégagements en tribune alors que c etait une tactique de Lucho pour surcharger le côté à Olise afin de faire en sorte qu'il soit rarement esseulé... ce qui explique son match catastrophique d hier ou il a été annihilé.
PARDON TSAR SAFONOV