This reminds me of that tweet that said; "You don’t have to lie to women when they like you because they’ll lie to themselves." Because that’s exactly what this is. A coping mechanism and what women say when they’ve already decided to stay so they need the story to make sense.
lip liner, nostalgia, good hair days, good music taste, traveling, golden hour, kindness, working out, freshly shaved, late summer evenings, the smell of the ocean, fresh flowers
When you realize you've never been put first most of your life, you're just the person who fills the void in people's lives until they don't need you anymore.