I think friend betrayal hurts worse than betrayal from a partner because friendships are usually built on choice not obligation. A romantic relationship comes with expectations, jealousy, conflict, and the possibility that things might not work out. But a friend is someone who chooses to be in your life without any of that. They see your highs your lows & your insecurities, your wins, and often know parts of you your partner doesn’t. So when a friend betrays you, it can feel like they had a front row seat to your life and still chose to move against you. It’s not just losing a person it’s losing trust, memories, loyalty, and sometimes the version of yourself that felt safe with them. That’s why for me friend betrayal leaves a wound that’s harder to explain and longer to heal.
Admitting you were wrong and apologizing does not absolve you of what you did nor does it mean you are owed forgiveness. People can still be mad at you even if you owned up to what you did and there’s nothing wrong with that.
I’m not a fan of grown people who are perpetual victims. You can’t be a victim in every story love. I don’t mind sharing when I’ve been the villain because why would you even play with me like that lmfao
also a lot of friendships last simply because yall are never actually honest with each other, instead you confide in a friend within the group and then yall continue on like you weren’t just talking mess about your friend but thats another topic for another day
I’m an eldest daughter which means I’m automatically irritated by your incompetence because I was never given room or grace to be imcompetent. I won’t be elaborating. The daughters who know get it.