The sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. Not just love you, but understand you, know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures, it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most.
one of the nicest feelings is to be with someone who genuinely likes you. not only romantically but as a person, they enjoy your company. they listen when you speak, notice your details. being around you feels easy. you never have to wonder if you’re welcome or being tolerated
“sebelum belajar how to be a good parent, learn how to be a good spouse first” AGREE ANJGGG WHAT’S THE POINT OF BEING A GOOD FATHER IF YOU’RE A SHITTY HUSBAND
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who's super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
princess treatment isn't when he buys you expensive gifts. It's when he never lets you go to sleep upset, listens to you, is soft with you, respects you, and changes his actions when it hurts you.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
Marry someone you love talking to. You'll come home to that voice, go to sleep to that voice, wake up to that voice. You'll have thousands of conversations, some deep, some dull, some in passing, some in anger. But if you can talk through anything, you can get through anything.
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you
i honestly think the most beautiful kind of love is when someone is sure about you, no mixed signals, no confusion, just consistency, effort, and a feeling that they truly want you in their life.
When you're dating someone who wants to grow with you, they will always bring up problems that doesn't sit right with them like not texting back faster, doing the little things like not keeping your candle streak. it's a sign that they value the relationship & truly want to make it work. they do it to help you avoid making the same mistake so the relationship continues to thrive.
I saw a post that said, “Did you really think Allah would give you a heart like that and not create someone who could love you the same way?” and it genuinely brought tears to my eyes.
Because sometimes being soft and sensitive feels heavy…