I know a couple who did their church wedding and immediately after that, they announced that people should collect their food, drinks and souvenirs at the door on their way out. There was no reception. They did their honeymoon in 3 different countries and I found it really cool.
Half of the time, the “peace” a lot of men ask for when they talk about wanting a partner that brings peace is silence and acceptance when they misbehave or act disrespectfully.
All this 50/50 talk from men will only make sense if:
1. You both hire and pay a cook.
2. You both hire and pay a cleaner.
3. Your wife does not carry the pregnancy in her womb; instead, you pay for gestational surrogacy combined with IVF.
Anything less is simply a manipulative tendency to marry your business partner while still knacking her.
You think pregnancy and house chores are nothing? Then start outsourcing them first.
By the time you spend $40,000 for gestational surrogacy once of twice, you'll understand that your wife brings a whole lot to the table.
Ingrates.
Above all, love God.
@eugeeyy Rape culture is imbedded in almost all the cultures that exist. Most still ongoing and unheard of
A lot of women are still mistreated and abused, women aren’t seen as humans and it shows. Looking back and seeing the continuous way we’re being treated till this day , it hurts
“I am not a feminist”🤡
Mind you, between yesterday and today, multiple young ladies have been raped and molested by multiple men in Delta state Nigeria in the name of culture.
Let me repeat that, a day is set aside to rape any woman you see outside somewhere in delta state and I’m talking 2026.
As a Nigerian woman, you have to be extremely dense to come against feminist. You think you’re bigger than the misogynistic system that guides us?
You think you’re more special than the girls who were gang raped in Uni yesterday?
Nigerian women don’t even hate men enough, all we do is ask for equality and freedom. Imagine living your life in a country where it’s allowed to gang rape you .
I don’t even pray this on my worst enemies!
I’m so sorry but you have to round up all those men and kill them. Those are men who have and will continue to rape women with or without tradition. They are a danger to women in delta state and should not be allowed to co-exist with the rest of society.
What happened yesterday in Ozoro, Delta, a lot of men/boys were out harassing, stripping, groping and trying to rape girls who came outside, all in the name of a so called “festival.”
Girls were dragged down from bikes, their tops & clothes torn, surrounded by dozens of boys grabbing them, assaulting them, while they screamed to be let go. I watched those videos completely horrified.
And what’s even more disturbing?
A multitude of men were there filming, laughing, encouraging it.
Not one person stepped in to stop it. But plenty participated one way or another.
I know we’re supposed to say “not all men”.
But in this particular situation , what exactly are we supposed to call it when it’s literally a crowd of all men enabling, enjoying, and taking part in violence against women?
This kind of “men are wired this way, women are wired that way” talk is exactly why so many people misunderstand intimacy.
Sèx isn’t automatically emotional for every woman, and it isn’t automatically emotionless for every man.
Human beings are more complex than biology soundbites.
Yes, desires differ. Yes, couples need balance.
But reducing people to “external vs internal organs” is not too good an explanation for relationship problems.
At the end of the day, communication fixes more marriages than stereotypes ever will.