i am deeply sorry to any of you who felt comfortable enough to open up to someone about your trauma & insecurities, only to have them throw it in your face when you were arguing later. that’s so unfortunate. that stings in a very different way. i hope you can heal from that soon.
My dad & I went to pick my sis up at the airport in Benin, about a 3 hour drive.
Throughout we gisted, laughed, talked about everything from men on my case to life when he was younger.
My sister joined us & we continued same for the trip back.
Next day the driver calls my dad
I hope younger dads are listening.
Don't give away your best years to others then expect your family to want to share theirs with you in your latter years.
In between 29 & 37, all you want to do is work, attend your classes, go to the gym, and nurture friendships. You want order above excitement. Quiet above noise. You think legacy, you court stability, you embrace responsibility.
Hata mukosane aje you cannot slander someone who came through for you when no one else would, the fact that at a certain moment you didn’t turn to anyone else but that person for help and they came through should be enough to demand civility even in soured times .
In a relationships I rarely concern myself about whether my partner is cheating on me/not. Nothing you can do to control that. That level of paranoia is not healthy. Focus on being the best partner, if you discover they’re cheating. Do whatever you need to do with it.
I tried calling @OgilvyAfrica in Kenya to be told that everyone is working from home & they aren't aware who is handling the @K24Plus / @K24Tv account. Make it make sense?? Something in the chain between @K24Plus@K24Tv is extremely fishy and I'm tired of the lies #KENYA#AFRICA
Lakini these beggars of Kanairo wako na Kiburi sana. Hapo Kileleshwa Bypass a guy comes to my window and I tell him, "Sina leo bro...."
He replied," Na unavaa suti ya nini? Si utoke tuombe pamoja..."
Earth is hard but Kanairo is harder.
I am impressed and grateful when I meet smart people.
But what I admire most is kindness, humility, optimism, generosity and shared knowledge. Be this person.
We celebrate absurdity. Brag over hurting people. Grown men wanting to be bad boys. Old women jostling to be bad bitches. And doing the most, to hurt each other. No, I cannot relate. I care for kindness. I practice honesty. I love laughter. I'll never partake in that loony circus