The directors and performers who don't want to work with you because you've spoken up about abuse are people that you do not want to work with.
There is no company that is worth compromising your integrity for.
There's no person that is worth compromising your integrity for.
Take in all the information you get from others and file it in your brain.
Make your own choices about who you want to work with.
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I don't work with new men anymore unless I've gotten to know them well enough that I feel comfortable or there is someone else in the room that I trust would have my back if something went awry.
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Your safety is paramount.
There is no opportunity worth compromising on your safety or comfort.
If you get a bad feeling, listen to it.
It's never too late to stop and leave or to cancel.
Trust your intuition.
Listen to the way your body feels around people. Often your body recognizes danger before your brain processes it.
Have someone you can call if you need help or to talk through something that feels off.
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You don't have to work with other people at all.
You can be in this industry successfully as a solo performer.
Your own happiness and personal goals matter more than recognition or titles.
A lot of people are confused by the concept of “cat years" so here's a little guide:
0-1 years - just a little baby
1-3 years - just a little baby
4-9 years - just a little baby
10+ years - just a little baby